tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6366119797094148802.post2540353856425377352..comments2023-10-01T05:47:22.385-04:00Comments on Opinions from the Pressure Cooker: It's Not You, It's MeWorkingMomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06401988118652082969noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6366119797094148802.post-90707144488764207502009-03-18T16:15:00.000-04:002009-03-18T16:15:00.000-04:00Aww. It's awful that this is causing you so much s...Aww. It's awful that this is causing you so much stress! Can you call one of them and ask her what she wants to talk about? That way it's harder to evade the question, and it's more one on one. Otherwise I would ask, "What is it you want to talk about?" at the next big group meeting you're at.Writer Bughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18332064105213167179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6366119797094148802.post-55853846534361411752009-03-04T10:41:00.000-05:002009-03-04T10:41:00.000-05:00Hmmm....tough. I say, to truly show your indiffere...Hmmm....tough. I say, to truly show your indifference to the petty arguments that arise when working with people who have different interests than you, you politely decline and leave it at that. If you are already fired up about these women, nothing good will come from meeting with them in person, especially if you already have a feeling of what they want to talk - or bash - you about. <BR/><BR/>Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00882955487246337457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6366119797094148802.post-47287485307921507012009-03-03T17:02:00.000-05:002009-03-03T17:02:00.000-05:00I might go to the meeting, but invite a friend of ...I might go to the meeting, but invite a friend of your own along as a witness, possibly wearing a wire or with a hidden tape recorder (LOL). Don't let them know in advance you will have company with you. This way, whatever goes down will have a friendly witness. I'll volunteer to go, as I don't know any of you involved (at least, I don't think I do). I'd also try to make them pay for SuperMomdelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08360301848972971389noreply@blogger.com